{"id":9300,"date":"2019-06-22T11:07:56","date_gmt":"2019-06-22T08:07:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/?p=9300"},"modified":"2026-01-03T22:01:36","modified_gmt":"2026-01-03T20:01:36","slug":"analiza-cazul-fetitei-adoptate-cu-forta-in-sua-iubirea-interzisa-dintre-copiii-abandonati-si-asistentii-maternali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/analiza-cazul-fetitei-adoptate-cu-forta-in-sua-iubirea-interzisa-dintre-copiii-abandonati-si-asistentii-maternali\/","title":{"rendered":"ANALIZ\u0102| Cazul feti\u0163ei adoptate cu for\u0163a \u00een SUA. Iubirea interzis\u0103 dintre copiii abandona\u0163i \u015fi asisten\u0163ii maternali"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Feti\u0163a luat\u0103 ieri cu for\u0163a de l\u00e2ng\u0103 asisten\u0163ii maternali care o crescuser\u0103 de la v\u00e2rsta de un an, de c\u0103tre procuroarea \u00eenso\u0163it\u0103 de masca\u0163i, a emo\u0163ionat \u00eentreaga \u0163ar\u0103. P\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi politicienii, care sunt mai greu de impresionat. Dar strig\u0103tul ca de animal dus la t\u0103iere al copilei de 9 ani s-a auzit de aceast\u0103 dat\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la ei. \u00cent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor sau nu, premierul Viorica D\u0103ncil\u0103 a adoptat \u015fi ea un copil \u015fi \u015ftie care sunt procedurile. \u015etie cu ce probleme emo\u0163ionale se confrunt\u0103 un copil adoptat, cu ce temeri tr\u0103ie\u015fte toat\u0103 via\u0163a acel copil care e speriat c\u0103 va fi abandonat iar \u015fi iar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce rela\u0163ia asistent maternal-copil este una de iubire interzis\u0103?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen ultimii ani, statul este cel care a externalizat serviciile de asisten\u0163\u0103 \u015fi protec\u0163ie a copilului c\u0103tre ace\u015fti asisten\u0163i maternali profesioni\u015fti. Nu degeaba li se spune “profesioni\u015fti”, acestor oameni li se dicteaz\u0103 de c\u0103tre psihologii DGASPC, \u00eenc\u0103 de la primele cursuri de formare, c\u0103 nu au voie s\u0103 se ata\u015feze de copiii pe care \u00eei \u00eengrijesc \u015fi \u00eei educ\u0103. Din start, este o rela\u0163ie interzis\u0103 de iubire, bazat\u0103 doar pe interesul financiar al asistentului maternal care are astfel un loc de munc\u0103 la domiciliu, relativ avantajos, dar f\u0103r\u0103 vacan\u0163e \u015fi momente de respiro, \u015fi nevoia copilului de a se sim\u0163i protejat, ca \u00een s\u00e2nul unei familii. Dar cum oare po\u0163i s\u0103 nu te ata\u015fezi \u00een timp de un copil cu care tr\u0103ie\u015fti non-stop \u015fi care devine parte din familia ta?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce face statul pentru copiii afla\u0163i \u00een casele asisten\u0163ilor maternali<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen tot acest timp, statul aloc\u0103 mai pu\u0163in de 10 lei pe zi pentru hrana acestor copii, asisten\u0163ii sociali ai DGASPC verific\u0103 rar ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu copilul \u00een s\u00e2nul familiei \u015fi doar dac\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ceva grav precum abuzurile. La fel \u015fi societatea. Prive\u015fte cu indiferen\u0163\u0103 \u015fi cel mult cu mil\u0103 un copil abandonat, care, dac\u0103 mai e \u015fi de etnie rom\u0103, este marginalizat c\u00e2nd ajunge la \u015fcoal\u0103. A\u015fadar statul se spal\u0103 pe m\u00e2ini \u015fi las\u0103 toat\u0103 grija \u015fi r\u0103spunderea \u00een c\u00e2rca asisten\u0163ilor maternali care nu au voie s\u0103 se ata\u015feze de ace\u015fti copii s\u0103rmani. De parc\u0103 po\u0163i s\u0103-i comanzi inimii…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Feti\u0163a de la Mehedin\u0163i, de etnie rom\u0103 \u015fi ea, este doar unul dintre copiii care tr\u0103iesc aceast\u0103 dram\u0103. Aflat\u0103 pe lista copiilor greu adoptabili, \u00eenfierat\u0103 cu acest stigmat al copilului cu pielea un pic mai \u00eenchis\u0103 la culoare, s-a \u00eent\u00e2lnit cu peste 100 de familii care au \u00eencercat s\u0103 o adopte. Nu a mers cu nimeni. P\u00e2n\u0103 la rom\u00e2nii din SUA, care ieri au luat-o cu masca\u0163ii de l\u00e2ng\u0103 asisten\u0163ii maternali, care e drept c\u0103 nu inten\u0163ionau s\u0103 o \u00eenfieze, dar nici s\u0103 o dea de l\u00e2ng\u0103 ei. O rela\u0163ie complicat\u0103 de iubire din interes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen loc de vinova\u0163i, statul s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 solu\u0163ii<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Premierul \u015fi ministrul Justi\u0163iei au cerut anchete. Procuroarea de la Craiova este acum blamat\u0103 pe bun\u0103 dreptate pentru modul brutal \u00een care a ac\u0163ionat. Probabil la final vor c\u0103dea capete. Nu unele foarte importante. Dar problema esen\u0163ial\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2ne. Rom\u00e2nia are aproape 40.000 de copii \u00een grija asisten\u0163ilor maternali. Copii care se ata\u015feaz\u0103 \u015fi depind ani buni de aceste familii de \u00eemprumut, \u00een timp ce statul st\u0103 lini\u015ftit c\u0103 scap\u0103 de o grij\u0103 mare. S\u0103 caute, a\u015fadar, guvernan\u0163ii \u015fi solu\u0163ii, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 vinova\u0163i. Ar fi un \u00eenceput de bun augur. Nu s\u0103 a\u015ftepte s\u0103 treac\u0103 acest moment de emo\u0163ie \u015fi s\u0103 uite din nou de copiii abandona\u0163i. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Feti\u0163a luat\u0103 ieri cu for\u0163a de l\u00e2ng\u0103 asisten\u0163ii maternali care o crescuser\u0103 de la v\u00e2rsta de un an, de c\u0103tre procuroarea \u00eenso\u0163it\u0103 de masca\u0163i, a emo\u0163ionat \u00eentreaga \u0163ar\u0103. P\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi politicienii, care sunt mai greu de impresionat. Dar strig\u0103tul ca de animal dus la t\u0103iere al copilei de 9 ani […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9304,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"wpzoom_is_breaking":1,"source_url":"","_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[9],"tags":[1979,1974,1975,1983,1977,1980,1982],"class_list":["post-9300","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-actual","tag-asistenti-maternali","tag-fetita-adoptata","tag-forta","tag-iubire","tag-mascati","tag-politicieni","tag-vinovati"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paH2fj-2q0","jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/businessexpress.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/fetita-tarata-de-procuroare.jpg?fit=560%2C560&ssl=1","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9300","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9300"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9300\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9305,"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9300\/revisions\/9305"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9304"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9300"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9300"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9300"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}