{"id":7503,"date":"2019-04-27T10:23:09","date_gmt":"2019-04-27T07:23:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/?p=7503"},"modified":"2019-04-27T10:23:17","modified_gmt":"2019-04-27T07:23:17","slug":"cum-sa-ai-copii-de-succes-secretele-unui-parinte-care-a-crescut-doi-directori-generali-si-un-profesor-doctor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/cum-sa-ai-copii-de-succes-secretele-unui-parinte-care-a-crescut-doi-directori-generali-si-un-profesor-doctor\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum s\u0103 ai copii de succes. Secretele unui p\u0103rinte care a crescut doi directori generali \u015fi un profesor doctor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Esther Wojcicki, de profesie jurnalist de investiga\u0163ie, are trei copii. Unul este profesor doctor \u00een pediatrie \u015fi ceilal\u0163i doi sunt directori generali, unul la YouTube, iar cel\u0103lalt la propria firm\u0103. Mama lor a scris o carte intitulat\u0103 “Cum s\u0103 cre\u015fti oameni de succes: lec\u0163ii simple pentru rezultate radicale”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Femeia poveste\u015fte c\u0103 din prima clip\u0103 \u00een care \u015fi-a adus fiica cea mare acas\u0103, \u00eentr-un scutec roz, a sim\u0163it dorin\u0163a s\u0103 o protejeze \u015fi s\u0103-i ofere cea mai bun\u0103 via\u0163\u0103 posibil\u0103, dar \u015fi s\u0103 fac\u0103 orice \u00eei st\u0103 \u00een putere s\u0103 o ajute s\u0103 reu\u015feasc\u0103. Dar \u00een cur\u00e2nd au \u00eenceput s\u0103 apar\u0103 \u00eentreb\u0103ri \u015fi \u00eendoieli. \u015ei dup\u0103 apari\u0163ia celorlalte dou\u0103 fete, Janet \u015fi Anne, totul s-a amplificat. Asta vor to\u0163i p\u0103rin\u0163ii din lume, dar nimeni nu pare a avea un r\u0103spuns \u015fi o re\u0163et\u0103 magic\u0103. Exper\u0163ii \u00een parenting se concentreaz\u0103 pe aspecte precum somnul, alimenta\u0163ia sau disciplina, dar sfaturile lor sunt \u00een mare parte limitate \u015fi arat\u0103 ca ni\u015fte prescrip\u0163ii. Ceea ce e important de \u015ftiut e s\u0103 le d\u0103m copiilor valorile \u015fi abilit\u0103\u0163ile pentru a reu\u015fi ca adul\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar cum s\u0103 reu\u015feasc\u0103 ei \u00een epoca robo\u0163ilor \u015fi a inteligen\u0163ei artificiale? Teoria ei e c\u0103 cei mai importan\u0163i ani sunt de la zero la cinci ani \u015fi atunci trebuie \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a\u0163i copiii c\u00e2t mai multe lucruri. De exemplu, la 4 sau 5 ani \u00eei pute\u0163i trimite deja la magazinul din apropiere s\u0103 cumpere p\u00e2ine. E primul impuls de a le da independen\u0163\u0103. Totodat\u0103, \u015fi-a imaginat c\u0103 dac\u0103 pot g\u00e2ndi pe cont propriu \u015fi pot lua propriile decizii, vor putea \u00eenfrunta orice provocare pe viitor. Dup\u0103 zeci de ani de experien\u0163\u0103, ca mam\u0103, bunic\u0103 \u015fi profesor, Esther a identificat cinci valori fundamentale care ne ajut\u0103 pe to\u0163i s\u0103 devenim oameni capabili \u015fi de succes: \u00ceNCREDERE, RESPECT, INDEPENDEN\u0162\u0102, COLABORARE \u015eI BUN\u0102TATE.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00ceNCREDERE<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Suntem \u00eentr-o criz\u0103 de \u00eencredere \u00een toat\u0103 lumea. P\u0103rin\u0163ii se tem de multe lucruri \u015fi asta face ca \u015fi copiii s\u0103 se team\u0103 – s\u0103 fie ceea ce sunt, s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi asume riscuri, s\u0103 ia atitudine \u00een fa\u0163a nedrept\u0103\u0163ii. \u00cencrederea trebuie s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 cu noi. C\u00e2nd avem \u00eencredere \u00een alegerile pe care le facem ca p\u0103rin\u0163i, putem avea \u00eencredere \u00een copii c\u0103 vor alege c\u0103ile necesare spre putere \u015fi independen\u0163\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

RESPECT<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Cea mai important\u0103 form\u0103 de respect pe care o putem ar\u0103ta copiilor no\u015ftri este legat\u0103 de autonomie \u015fi individualitate. Orice copil are un har, o calitate, iar p\u0103rin\u0163ii au responsabilitatea s\u0103 hr\u0103neasc\u0103 acel har. Este exact opusul atitudinii de a dicta copiilor ce via\u0163\u0103 s\u0103 aib\u0103, ce profesie s\u0103 aleag\u0103, etc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

INDEPENDEN\u0162A<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Independen\u0163a se bazeaz\u0103 pe o funda\u0163ie solid\u0103 de \u00eencredere \u015fi respect. Copiii care \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 autocontrolul \u015fi responsabilitatea de mici sunt mai bine preg\u0103ti\u0163i s\u0103 \u00eenfrunte provoc\u0103rile ca adul\u0163i \u015fi vor g\u00e2ndi creativ. Copiii cu adev\u0103rat independen\u0163i sunt capabili s\u0103 fac\u0103 fa\u0163\u0103 adversit\u0103\u0163ii, obstacolelor, e\u015fecurilor \u015fi plictiselii. Se vor sim\u0163i \u00een control chiar \u015fi c\u00e2nd \u00een jurul lor e haos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

COLABORARE<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Colaborare \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 lucrezi \u00eempreun\u0103 ca familie, \u00een clas\u0103 ori la locul de munc\u0103. Pentru p\u0103rin\u0163i \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencurajeze copiii s\u0103 contribuie la discu\u0163ii \u015fi la decizii. \u00cen secolul 21, p\u0103rin\u0163ii nu mai pot dicta. N-ar trebui s\u0103 le mai spunem copiilor ce s\u0103 fac\u0103, ci s\u0103 le cerem ideile, opiniile, s\u0103 lucr\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103 pentru a g\u0103si solu\u0163ii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n


BUN\u0102TATE<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

E adev\u0103rat \u015fi ciudat c\u0103 avem tendin\u0163a s\u0103 \u00eei trat\u0103m pe cei apropia\u0163i f\u0103r\u0103 bun\u0103tate \u015fi considera\u0163ie. P\u0103rin\u0163ii nu sunt de multe ori un model de bun\u0103tate. Adev\u0103rata bun\u0103voin\u0163\u0103 implic\u0103 recuno\u015ftin\u0163\u0103 \u015fi iertare. E important s\u0103 le ar\u0103t\u0103m copiilor c\u0103 cel mai entuziasmant lucru este s\u0103 faci via\u0163a altei persoane mai bun\u0103.\u00a0 <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Esther Wojcicki, de profesie jurnalist de investiga\u0163ie, are trei copii. Unul este profesor doctor \u00een pediatrie \u015fi ceilal\u0163i doi sunt directori generali, unul la YouTube, iar cel\u0103lalt la propria firm\u0103. Mama lor a scris o carte intitulat\u0103 “Cum s\u0103 cre\u015fti oameni de succes: lec\u0163ii simple pentru rezultate radicale”. Femeia poveste\u015fte […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7504,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"wpzoom_is_breaking":1,"source_url":"","_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[363],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7503","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-market"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paH2fj-1X1","jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/businessexpress.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/copii-si-parinti.jpg?fit=275%2C183&ssl=1","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7503","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7503"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7503\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7505,"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7503\/revisions\/7505"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7504"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7503"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7503"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businessexpress.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7503"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}